A Million Little Pieces Of My Mind

The Man Who Still Isn't There

The Man Who Isn't There

By: Paul S Cilwa Posted: 10/6/2026 Page Views: 9
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An empty side of the bed, and the one song I'd gladly get my heart broken for.
Estimated reading time: 2 minute(s) (270 words)

The title song of my 1997 break-up album, re-recorded, and (I think) the best of the lot. The words came almost fully developed while I was visiting an ancient stone monument in New Hampshire.

The Man Who Isn't There

The Paul S Cilwa Project

Paul S Cilwa

Lyrics

[Verse 1]
In my sleep I start to weep
Across the bed my fingers creep
And find no one, it isn't fair
To find no one, not find the man
The man who isn't there

[Verse 2]
An empty place, a missing face
Nothing remains, no, not a trace
It hurts when you're the one to care
To care for him, care for the man
The man who isn't there

[Verse 3]
I filled the space with thoughts of him
Of hate and hope, of futures grim
Why did he leave? What did I say?
His image will not fade away
If I had not done something wrong
I don't think it would hurt this long
But now he's gone, and it's too late
Somehow I have to compensate

[Chorus]
A hurting heart, a lonely part of me
That dreads another start
To find another man to share
To share my life, share with a man
A man who will replace the man
The man who isn't there

[Chorus]
A hurting heart, a lonely part of me
That dreads another start
To find another man to share
To share my life, share with a man
A man who will replace the man
The man who isn't there

The man who isn't there